WATCHMAN CATHOLIC CHARISMATIC RENEWAL MOVEMENT
21 Days FIRST FRUIT FASTING FELLOWSHIP 2026 (Premium Edition) (Day 17)
- Theme: REAPING IN RIGHTEOUSNESS AND DIVINE REMEMBERANCE
- Texts: Gen. 8:22; Hos. 10:12; Jn. 4:35-38; Gal.6:7
- Topic: OFFENCE RETENTION, AN OMNIOUS SIGN
- Subtexts: Pro.4:20-23; Matt.18:7
We wish to remind all that the 21days exercise is meant to purify participants as
one that is wadding through a clean flowing river. This should be borne in mind as we go through this teaching.
The challenges of our time create an atmosphere conducive for birthing and assimilation of offences. The power of darkness knowing that their time is very short (Matt. 8:29; Rom. 13:12) are busy pushing their emissaries to cast spells of irritability and anger, violence, hatred, strife, and all manner of emotional toxins upon people and places thus heating up the polity (Matt.24:10; 2Tim.3:1-3). The economic distress, financial downturn and associated hunger exacerbate the toxic emotional situation (Ps.11:3). The suspension of sermons on holiness that build character and value and addiction to messages on financial breakthrough has not been helpful to the church; as covetousness has engulfed assemblies and all manner of vices including offence making and offence taking. (1Tim.6:8- 10)
The child of God is expected to be wise and to act knowledgeably (Pro.1:5; 22:3; Matt.10:16; 18:8).
We shall describe ‗offences‘ and discuss the management.
Simply speaking, offences are
acts that violate laws, rules, or customs.
To appreciate the effect of the condition, we shall go to the Greek word translated ―offences‖ – skandalŏn which means trap-stick (bent sapling), i.e. snare (figuratively, cause of displeasure or sin).
Skandalŏn is used metaphorically for anything that arouses prejudice; or
becomes a hindrance to others; or causes them to fall by the way. It includes teaching of things contrary to sound doctrine (Rom.16:17). It does not take root where love is functional (1Jn.2:10).
Offences always take root when our pride or sense of self is challenged.
The unrefined may burst into some frenzy of violence at such an instance, while the more disciplined may initially stay calm but transit to a state of pouting and dejection: planning how to retaliate (2Sam.13:19-22).
They are thoughts embedded in the mind and often viewed as spiritual realities.
They are silent killers, destroying physical, emotional and spiritual lives.
Physically,
they breed debilitating chronic diseases like hypertension, heart
failure, ulcers, cancers, arthritis, immunological diseases. Mental health can terribly be affected as peace and joy depart setting a stage for depression, etc.
Spiritually, offences can gender bitterness, hatred and all manner of pollution, thus defiling the victims and their sympathizers (Heb12:14-15). In addition, the
offended heart cannot delight in spiritual things (cp. Ps.42:5; 43:5).
- OFFENCE MANAGEMENT, DISCUSSED (Matt.18:15-19)
This silent destroyer which has liquidated many relationships leaving behind broken homes, devastated spouses, singly-parented children; divisions and balkanization of churches; fractured erstwhile promising businesses or death from disease or suicide, must not be neglected (Pro.17:22). For when discovered early and nipped in the bud, often leads to a better relationship between the
offence-taker and offence-maker.
The Lord who set up the human organization knows about the challenges that arise in human relationship and so gave His counsel to His people as follows:
- Always acknowledge the Lord in all circumstances (Pro.3:5,6; Ps.119:19).
- Adopt humility so as to do anything necessary for peace (Matt.5:9; Phil.2:3). iii. Be apt to listen and slow to speak in anger (Jas.1:19).
- Speak the truth in love as soft answer drives away wrath (Eph.4:15; Pro.15:1).
- Focus on reconciliation rather than winning: (be ready to admit your faults and not defend yourself).
- Forgive as Christ did (Lk.23:34; Mk.11:25,32; Matt.18:21-35; 6:14-15). vii. Be addicted to eating the word of God (Ps. 1:1-3, 119:165)
Couples must guard against offences by being open, truthful, and wise in their relationship (Pro. 22:3; 27:12). They must hold the principle of ―agree to disagree‖. They must avoid digging holes to find ‗crickets in the relationships (Eccl. 7:21-22) and partner‘s trigger zones.
The believer must learn to give benefit of doubt and avoid offences that originate from presumption (cons. Jos. 22:10-34).
While we wait on the Lord with His word, a prayer for instantaneous sanctification can do the miracle of perpetual offence-rejection (Isa. 6:1-7)
Keeping offences is dangerous in the now and in eternity. Let us rise to pray.